Tag: healing

Are you ready to drop your densities?

I’ve always pictured it as someone dropping off  heavy bags from a hot air balloon and lifting off. At least, that’s what my guides show me or inter-dimensional friends.

And the feeling can be quite exhilarating. The process, can be daunting.

But what does it mean to drop your densities?

It means to drop your pain, your guilt, your sorrows, your worries, your woes.

You don’t have to hold onto to your old pain stories or the past.

Because your old pain stories do not identify you. You are not your past. This is 3D thinking, to think linear. That we must go through pain in order to feel joy.

Trust me – pain does have it’s lessons and we learn from our past.

When I have conversations with my IDB’s (inter-dimensional beings) some of who asked me: What is forgiveness?

I kind of feel unsure how to answer that. It almost seems like an Earth human story. Because I say, well sometimes people cause each other harm or pain, whether intentionally or not.

And they gasp and say in shock – What do you mean you intentionally cause each other pain?! You mean to say some of your beings intentionally want to harm or hurt one another!

And this is our conversations goes because in their civilization – usually higher densities, they have dropped their pain.

And yet, at the same time, with duality, you have to acknowledge your pain, shadows and not push it aside or suppress.

We have all had our share of pain in our life. Admit it, inner work looks more like this at the beginning:

We have had our share of therapy. Inner work. Spiritual practice. Healing shaman circles and healers. Indigenous healing circles. Nature. Whatever that is for you, we walked that path towards healing and letting go.

I did too and I still have my moment. Now it’s a bit quicker to address and acknowledge. I give my pain space to be. If she wants to throw a tantrum. Let her. We call that holding space. The body shakes, she tremors, she is releasing this energy from a memory once before.

My definition of POST TRAUMATIC STRESS DISORDER is this:

When pain is given from a younger self to an older self. Because the younger self didn’t have the resources to deal with it. So it transmitted it the older self when the resources were available to properly deal with it. And I think that’s beautiful as in you helping you. And isn’t it true that when any great obstacle or challenge appears, a solution arises and/or somebody or someone shows up in your life to help you transmute that pain?

Transmutation is the ability to transform darkness into light. On a 3D level, in order to release the 3D body, you must acknowledge the pain in order to transcend to it holds you down.

It can be colours, or drawing, with trained professionals and/or healers with experience in your life. They help transmute that pain and facilitate you on your heroes journey. So you can overcome your personal obstacles. The Road Less Travelled so to speak.

Many times people don’t want to release that pain or go there so to speak because they’re bodies cramp up, they feel like they’re going to die, a panic enters their body! No,no, mind says, I cannot enter it hurts so much.

But when you do with a trained professional. You realize you don’t die, you healed your wounds and pain.

And for that, I think you’re pretty brilliant to be so brave to transcend your pain. I think you’re beautiful.

When working with guides, my personal experience has been to provide that safe space for people to talk it out. My guides though, don’t linger in pain or allow to buffet your sorrows and keep eating the stories you don’t want. It’s about acknowledging.

When I work with my Guide Empathy, she usually sits beside and helps the people do body work to release the areas of your body that had the pain. Like a red dot, red coming from your ROOT CHAKRA, which is the physical plane. It is released.

The human tends to stay onto it because it’s all that they have known. I challenge you, once you have done your inner work, and it’s not like a day either, it’s a process and like I said, sometimes it comes back but you’re that much more equipped. You acknowledge and let go.

Forgiveness is really letting go.

And if people really knew how freeing forgiveness is,

more people would do it!

To be clear – forgiveness is not a justification for the pain or the one who inflicted it. No, far from that! It’s means YOU made an empowered decision to say, NO, I let go of my pain so I can move on with my live. And that is standing in your power.

Let me tell you. It’s hard work. But there are plenty of healers to help you shift and move through that pain. And it ain’t unicorn sprinkles either. Some mediations deal with a lot of fire work. A burning of the past, to rebirth a new you.

This is your journey not there’s – so don’t give your power away. You are much more stronger than that, than you know.

With more to say on this topic,

I will leave it at that.

Like the butterfly, you have your caterpillar, cocoon and ready to fly moments. Remember, the butterfly dissolved every cell in her body to become a butterfly. She only left a few cells left in tact. That’s called the Imaginal Cells.

And I believe for humans, this concept of metamorphosis is found within — The Center of your Heart! And you have people to remind you how infinite you are to show you how.

Love,

Pam and Her Guides – Inter-Dimensional Friends